grrlAthlete

My parents recently moved to a senior retirement residence because my dad has Alzheimers. In the dining room, while waiting for a meal to be served, he will snack on crackers so that he's no longer hungry. My mother is embarrassed that he wastes his meal, as well as being concerned about nutrition. If they are dining with others she is uncomfortable simply taking the crakers away. How might she best handle this situation?

I had also asked the same question in caring.com

I would like to have more expert suggestions before taking any final decision.

Thanks,
Anne